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What does it mean?
Being made to feel special can give a child confidence and a sense of purpose or destiny.
In plain terms
Treating a child like they are important boosts their confidence.
What can you take from it?
Making a child feel valued builds confidence.

Where it applies

  • building confidence
  • parenting strategies

Putting it to work

  • affirm child worth
  • encourage unique talents

Questions to consider

  • What makes a child feel valued?
  • How do you build confidence?

Another view

Overemphasizing destiny might create unrealistic expectations.

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