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What does it mean?
Freud claims that being a mother's favorite instills a lifelong sense of confidence and expectation of success.
In plain terms
Children favored by their mothers often feel confident and successful as adults.
What can you take from it?
Early parental approval can shape lifelong self-confidence.

Where it applies

  • parenting decisions
  • career development
  • relationship building

Putting it to work

  • foster healthy attachment
  • recognize early influences

Questions to consider

  • Does favoritism help or harm?
  • How does childhood shape adult confidence?

Another view

Success depends on many factors beyond early parental favoritism.

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