The more people have studied different methods of bringing up children the more they have come to the conclusion that what good mothers and fathers instinctively feel like doing for their babies is the best after all. All parents do their best job when they have a natural, easy confidence in themselves. Better to make a few mistakes from being natural than to try to do everything letter-perfect out of a feeling of worry.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Parents who trust their instincts and feel confident in their natural approach to parenting tend to succeed more than those who strive for perfection based on studied methods.
- In plain terms
- Trust your gut and be confident instead of trying to be perfect.
- What can you take from it?
- Natural confidence beats perfectionism in parenting.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Do you trust your parental instincts?
- How does perfectionism affect your parenting?
Another view
Over-reliance on instinct without learning can sometimes miss critical safety or developmental knowledge.
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