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There's a really a cold, cold side to my personality that I'm not really comfortable with. I'm constantly dealing with that side of my personality versus my overly sentimental side: There's just a side that's a real motherfucker side; it's nothing I want to admit or even look at. It's where a lot of my strength lies. It's been the part of me that's been able to steel my spine against situations that probably would have broken a lot of people, or caused them to jump off the loop.

Billy Corgan#17

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Embracing a tough side of personality provides strength to overcome difficult situations.
In plain terms
The hard side of his personality helps him survive tough times.
What can you take from it?
Accepting your tougher side helps you get through hard times.

Where it applies

  • facing adversity
  • personal growth
  • self-acceptance

Putting it to work

  • embrace your dark side
  • use strength in crisis

Questions to consider

  • What part of you helps you survive?

Another view

Over-relying on toughness might prevent emotional healing.

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