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What does it mean?
Tolerating intolerable people can disarm them and lead to better outcomes than fighting.
In plain terms
Tolerating bad behavior might stop it better than fighting.
What can you take from it?
Use tolerance to diffuse conflict.

Where it applies

  • dealing with critics
  • managing hostility
  • social friction

Putting it to work

  • remain calm in conflict
  • choose tolerance over reaction

Questions to consider

  • When is tolerance the best strategy?
  • How do you handle intolerance?

Another view

Tolerance should not mean accepting abuse.

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