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What does it mean?
Survival is the first step before regaining control in conflict.
In plain terms
Stay alive first, then choose when to fight back.
What can you take from it?
Prioritize survival before planning a comeback.

Where it applies

  • business negotiation
  • personal crisis
  • team leadership

Putting it to work

  • step back to regroup
  • plan your counter-move

Questions to consider

  • When should you step back?
  • How do you regain ground?

Another view

Retreating can sometimes look like weakness to others.

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