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What does it mean?
People often feel kind or good only when they are not currently bothered by annoyances.
In plain terms
Everyone feels nice when nothing is annoying them.
What can you take from it?
Mood affects perceived benevolence.

Where it applies

  • interpersonal conflict
  • workplace dynamics
  • daily interaction

Putting it to work

  • patience practice
  • empathy training
  • stress management

Questions to consider

  • Are you kind only when comfortable?
  • What triggers your mood?

Another view

Some people remain kind even when annoyed.

More from C. S. Lewis

  1. Love may forgive all infirmities and love still in spite of them: but Love cannot cease to will their removal.

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  2. God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pains: it is His megaphone to rouse a deaf world.

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  3. Love is something more stern and splendid than mere kindness.

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