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What does it mean?
People often offend those who are kind and likely to forgive them. It points out human tendency to exploit goodness.
In plain terms
People offend kind folks the most because they know those folks will forgive.
What can you take from it?
Goodness invites offense if boundaries are not set.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • workplace
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • set boundaries
  • protect kindness
  • expect fairness

Questions to consider

  • Do you take forgiveness for granted?
  • How do you protect your kindness?

Another view

Not everyone exploits kindness intentionally.

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