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What does it mean?
If something isn’t love, it must be madness, and madness can be forgiven.
In plain terms
If it’s not love, it’s madness, which is excusable.
What can you take from it?
Distinguish between love and irrational passion before judging.

Where it applies

  • relationship conflict
  • self‑analysis
  • moral judgment

Putting it to work

  • pause before labeling feelings
  • seek clarity on motives

Questions to consider

  • What criteria separate love from madness for you?
  • How does forgiveness affect accountability?

Another view

Labeling intense feelings as madness may dismiss legitimate concerns.

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