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I am not [:] asserting that humans are either genial or aggressive by inborn biological necessity. Obviously, both kindness and violence lie within the bounds of our nature because we perpetrate both, in spades. I only advance a structural claim that social stability rules nearly all the time and must be based on an overwhelmingly predominant (but tragically ignored) frequency of genial acts, and that geniality is therefore our usual and preferred response nearly all the time. [:] [T]he center of human nature is rooted in ten thousand ordinary acts of kindness that define our days.

Stephen Jay Gould#113

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Human nature is fundamentally rooted in habitual kindness rather than inherent aggression, despite our capacity for violence.
In plain terms
People are mostly kind by default, even though we can be violent too.
What can you take from it?
Recognize that kindness is our default state, not an exception.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • community building

Putting it to work

  • value ordinary kindness
  • prioritize social harmony

Questions to consider

  • What acts of kindness define your day?
  • How do we protect our kind nature?

Another view

History shows violence can escalate quickly when social structures break down.

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