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Friendship arises out of mere companionship when two or more of the companions discover that they have in common some insight or interest or even taste which the others do not share and which, till that moment, each believed to be his own unique treasure (or burden). The typical expression of opening Friendship would be something like, 'What? You too? I thought I was the only one.'

C. S. Lewis#166

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Friendship starts when companions discover shared interests they thought were unique.
In plain terms
Friendship begins when you find others share your unique interests.
What can you take from it?
Shared interests transform companionship into friendship.

Where it applies

  • meeting a new friend
  • finding common ground
  • expressing relief

Putting it to work

  • building relationships
  • finding peers
  • sharing interests

Questions to consider

  • What creates friendship?
  • How do you bond?

Another view

Not all friendships rely on shared interests.

More from C. S. Lewis

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  2. All that is not eternal is eternally out of date.

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  3. Need-love cries to God from our poverty; Gift-love longs to serve, or even to suffer for, God; Appreciative love says: 'We give thanks to thee for thy great gl…

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