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What does it mean?
Lewis notes that it is easier to pray for someone you dislike than to physically see them.
In plain terms
It is easier to wish for a bore to be far away than to see them.
What can you take from it?
Avoidance is often easier than confrontation.

Where it applies

  • dealing with annoying people
  • avoiding social duties

Putting it to work

  • identify avoidance behaviors
  • manage social anxiety

Questions to consider

  • When do we prefer distance to engagement?
  • Why is prayer easier than action?

Another view

The quote relies on a specific religious context to fully land.

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