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What does it mean?
You should not let others dictate your emotional state.
In plain terms
No one deserves your anger.
What can you take from it?
Control your emotions by valuing your peace over others' actions.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • personal stress management
  • setting boundaries

Putting it to work

  • practice non-reactivity
  • value inner peace

Questions to consider

  • Who controls your emotions?
  • Is anger ever useful?

Another view

Some situations legitimately warrant anger as a moral response.

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