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What does it mean?
Flatterers are fun to be around alone but lose value when they compliment others.
In plain terms
A flatterer is nice until they start praising other people too.
What can you take from it?
Flattery is often a tool for manipulation.

Where it applies

  • social dynamics
  • choosing friends
  • workplace politics

Putting it to work

  • watch for flattery
  • value honesty
  • be wary of compliments

Questions to consider

  • Can flattery ever be sincere?
  • How do you spot a fake friend?

Another view

Complimenting others can be a sign of social grace.

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