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What does it mean?
People are drawn to joy and repelled by sorrow because the world already has enough trouble. Positive energy attracts connection while negativity isolates.
In plain terms
Joy attracts people but sadness pushes them away.
What can you take from it?
Share your positivity to build stronger relationships.

Where it applies

  • social gatherings
  • friendship
  • workplace

Putting it to work

  • focus on gratitude
  • share good news
  • manage negativity

Questions to consider

  • How do you handle sharing sadness with others?
  • Does this sentiment feel true to your experience?

Another view

This view oversimplifies the value of shared grief and empathy.

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