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What does it mean?
Pleasure is accessible to many, but suffering is a personal journey everyone must face alone.
In plain terms
Enjoyment is shared, but pain is individual.
What can you take from it?
Prepare for personal hardship even when life seems joyful.

Where it applies

  • life transitions
  • illness
  • grief

Putting it to work

  • preparing for loss
  • supporting others

Questions to consider

  • How do you handle isolation?
  • Is pain ever shared?

Another view

It ignores shared suffering like pandemics.

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