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What does it mean?
Hardy suggests that blind forces of fate distributed both joy and pain equally throughout his life journey.
In plain terms
Unseen forces gave me both happiness and pain along the way.
What can you take from it?
Life gives both good and bad, often without reason.

Where it applies

  • reflecting on life events
  • seeking meaning in pain

Putting it to work

  • accepting life's ups and downs
  • keeping a balance journal

Questions to consider

  • Do you feel life treats you fairly?
  • How do you balance good and bad times?

Another view

It attributes life events to impersonal forces rather than personal agency.

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