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What does it mean?
Hardy argues that things become more precious when they are hard to get, and for some, unattainability makes love permanent.
In plain terms
Objects lose value when easy to get but some people fall in love when they lose it.
What can you take from it?
Loss can cement affection more than possession.

Where it applies

  • failed relationships
  • nostalgia
  • romantic reflection

Putting it to work

  • writing fiction
  • analyzing relationships
  • understanding grief

Questions to consider

  • Does losing something make you love it more?
  • Why do some memories last longer than others?

Another view

It generalizes human emotion based on limited experience.

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