With all, the beautiful things of the earth become more dear as they elude pursuit; but with some natures utter elusion is the one special event which will make a passing love permanent for ever.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Hardy argues that things become more precious when they are hard to get, and for some, unattainability makes love permanent.
- In plain terms
- Objects lose value when easy to get but some people fall in love when they lose it.
- What can you take from it?
- Loss can cement affection more than possession.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Does losing something make you love it more?
- Why do some memories last longer than others?
Another view
It generalizes human emotion based on limited experience.
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