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What does it mean?
Finding out a new friend is evil is just another experience for most people, suggesting a cynical view of human nature.
In plain terms
Discovering a new friend is bad is just another lesson for most people.
What can you take from it?
Expect that not everyone you meet will be good.

Where it applies

  • meeting new people
  • feeling betrayed
  • learning from mistakes

Putting it to work

  • being cautious in new relationships
  • reflecting on past friendships

Questions to consider

  • How has betrayal shaped your view of new friends?
  • Is trust a risk worth taking?

Another view

It generalizes that people are desensitized to betrayal.

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