There were these two kids - everybody thought I was cruel because one day he (the youngest boy) fell in a three foot ditch. There was a lot of bushes, the slope was three or four feet above the ditch. Down there it was muddy and he was crying. Others standing around said, 'Help him out', but I didn't. I said, 'Watch'. About twenty minutes passed or so and he stopped crying and started to climb out on his own. And the second time he tried to climb out he fell back down, but kept on climbing out more. Finally when he made it, climbed out, he was really tired, and stood in front of me and smiled. I pushed him back in the ditch again.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker describes a harsh method of teaching resilience by refusing to help a child and then repeating the action.
- In plain terms
- I let a child struggle to learn and then made it harder to test him.
- What can you take from it?
- Hardship is used to test resilience.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is harshness ever a valid teacher?
- How should children be raised?
Another view
This approach risks causing lasting harm rather than growth.
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