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What does it mean?
The author states he does not plan to manipulate his friends when they visit.
In plain terms
He does not think about how to influence his friends.
What can you take from it?
True friendship avoids manipulation.

Where it applies

  • social interactions
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • interact genuinely
  • avoid ulterior motives

Questions to consider

  • Do you ever plan how to influence friends?
  • Is influence always bad?

Another view

Some social influence is often unconscious.

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