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What does it mean?
The speaker regrets not realizing the loved one was mortal before they died, which caused unexpected grief.
In plain terms
I did not think you could die, so I was not prepared to grieve.
What can you take from it?
Acknowledging mortality beforehand can prepare us for loss.

Where it applies

  • mourning
  • remembrance
  • loss

Putting it to work

  • reflect on impermanence
  • prepare for loss

Questions to consider

  • How does knowing someone is mortal change how you love them?
  • What surprises you about grief?

Another view

The quote assumes a specific personal relationship that may not apply universally.

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