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Three days later the little princess was buried, and Prince Andrew went up the steps to where the coffin stood, to give her the farewell kiss. And there in the coffin was the same face, though with closed eyes. 'Ah, what have you done to me?' it still seemed to say, and Prince Andrew felt that something gave way in his soul and that he was guilty of a sin he could neither remedy nor forget.

Leo Tolstoy#18

DeathGuiltLossRegretSadness

About this quote

What does it mean?
Prince Andrew feels guilt and loss at his wife's funeral, seeing a silent reproach in her face.
In plain terms
He feels guilty and heartbroken at his wife's funeral.
What can you take from it?
Grief can bring deep guilt and regret.

Where it applies

  • funeral
  • spousal loss
  • remorse

Putting it to work

  • process grief
  • forgive yourself
  • honor memory

Questions to consider

  • Do you feel guilt when you grieve?
  • How do you say goodbye?

Another view

Guilt after loss is not universal or always productive.

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