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About this quote

What does it mean?
De Gaulle expresses sudden clarity or realization regarding his interlocutor.
In plain terms
I understand you now.
What can you take from it?
Understanding someone can be a powerful moment.

Where it applies

  • negotiation
  • conflict resolution
  • personal revelation

Putting it to work

  • active listening
  • acknowledging insight

Questions to consider

  • When did you last feel truly understood?
  • How does understanding change a conversation?

Another view

Understanding does not guarantee agreement or action.

More from Charles de Gaulle

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  2. Long live free Quebec!

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  3. France has no friends, only interests!

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