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What does it mean?
Ask questions instead of guessing what others think or want. Clear communication prevents unnecessary conflict.
In plain terms
Ask questions instead of guessing to avoid trouble.
What can you take from it?
Clarify intentions to prevent misunderstandings.

Where it applies

  • team projects
  • dating
  • parenting

Putting it to work

  • ask for clarification
  • state needs directly
  • verify expectations

Questions to consider

  • What assumptions am I making right now?
  • What question am I afraid to ask?

Another view

Constant questioning can sometimes feel like distrust or interrogation.

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