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About this quote

What does it mean?
Holding onto resentment shortens life; forgetting past injustices leads to greater happiness and peace.
In plain terms
You'd be happier forgetting past wrongs because life is too short for grudges.
What can you take from it?
Let go of grudges to live a happier life.

Where it applies

  • recovering from hurt
  • moving on
  • dealing with past wrongs

Putting it to work

  • practice forgiveness exercises
  • focus on present moments
  • re-frame past events

Questions to consider

  • What does holding a grudge cost you?
  • Is forgetting always the best path?

Another view

Some injustices require accountability rather than simple forgetting.

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