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What does it mean?
It is possible to forgive a person while still condemning their wrongful actions.
In plain terms
I can forgive the person but still hate their crime.
What can you take from it?
Separate the person from their actions.

Where it applies

  • dealing with offenders
  • personal conflict
  • moral evaluation

Putting it to work

  • practice empathy for people
  • critique behaviors separately
  • set boundaries

Questions to consider

  • Can you truly forgive without forgetting?
  • Where do you draw the line?

Another view

Forgiving a person might sometimes be seen as condoning their actions.

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