'Are you anything akin to me, do you think, Jane?' I could risk no sort of answer by this time; my heart was full. 'Because,' he said, 'I sometimes have a queer feeling with regard to you - especially when you are near to me, as now: it is as if I had a string somewhere under my left ribs, tightly and inextricably knotted to a similar string situated in the corresponding quarter of your little frame. And if that boisterous Channel, and two hundred miles or so of land, come broad between us, I am afraid that cord of communion will be snapped; and then I've a nervous notion I should take to bleeding inwardly.'
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- A character describes an intense, physical-like bond with another person, fearing that separation would cause deep internal pain.
- In plain terms
- I feel so connected to you that being apart feels like a physical injury.
- What can you take from it?
- Deep emotional bonds can feel physically tangible and painful to sever.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you feel connected to others?
- Is love physical or emotional?
Another view
Framing connection as physical dependency may overlook autonomy.
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