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What does it mean?
Marriage is presented as a union of equals rather than hierarchy.
In plain terms
I marry my equal and match.
What can you take from it?
Partnership requires mutual equality.

Where it applies

  • romantic vows
  • relationship goals
  • equality advocacy

Putting it to work

  • defining partnership
  • setting expectations

Questions to consider

  • What makes a good partner?
  • Is equality possible in marriage?

Another view

It assumes equality is the ideal for all relationships.

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