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'I personally think that WAAAAY too many parents do overreact. (Lord, I'm going to get mail now!) But really...they don't seem to know the difference between the different levels of depth and importance that things have in their kids lives. It's often that if THEY would do something or can understand something, then it's okay that their kids do it. But if they wouldn't do it, their kids can't either--even though the kids are grown! Not respecting their kids individuality much, actually. Usually out of fear and not so much because it's a horrible thing. It's much easier to scream and shut down when faced with something that might rock the boat a little.'

Christina Aguilera#36

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Parents overreact to kids' lives because they fear difference and lack understanding.
In plain terms
Parents worry because they don't understand their kids.
What can you take from it?
Understand before judging.

Where it applies

  • family disputes
  • child rearing
  • communication

Putting it to work

  • listen to kids
  • avoid projecting

Questions to consider

  • Do you understand your kids?
  • Why do parents worry?

Another view

Parents sometimes have valid safety concerns.

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