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The Forsytes were resentful of something, not individually, but as a family; this resentment expressed itself in an added perfection of raiment, an exuberance of family cordiality, an exaggeration of family importance, and - the sniff. Danger - so indispensable in bringing out the fundamental quality of any society, group, or individual - was what the Forsytes scented; the premonition of danger put a burnish on their armour. For the first time, as a family, they appeared to have an instinct of being in contact, with some strange and unsafe thing.

John Galsworthy#2

PerceptionSocietyFamilyFamily dynamicsFearUnity

About this quote

What does it mean?
A family's resentment and fear of external danger manifest in heightened attention to appearance, forced warmth, and exaggerated self-importance.
In plain terms
Fear of outside threats makes the family act more united and pretentious.
What can you take from it?
External threats often tighten group bonds and increase performative identity.

Where it applies

  • family gatherings
  • social gatherings
  • crisis situations

Putting it to work

  • observe group reactions to stress
  • note performative unity

Questions to consider

  • How does your family react to perceived threats?
  • What signals do groups use to show unity?

Another view

The quote assumes the family's behavior is solely defensive without considering internal conflicts.

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