I pity bashful men, who feel the pain Of fancied scorn and undeserved disdain, And bear the marks upon a blushing face, Of needless shame, and self-impos'd disgrace.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The author pities those who suffer from imagined rejection. Shame often comes from within rather than actual judgment from others.
- In plain terms
- Some hurt themselves with fear of what others think.
- What can you take from it?
- Self-imposed shame causes unnecessary pain.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How much of your worry is real?
- Where does your shame come from?
Another view
It overlooks genuine social rejection that can be painful.
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