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What does it mean?
Sexual orientation should not define a person's entire purpose or existence.
In plain terms
Being gay is one part of you, not the only thing that matters.
What can you take from it?
Sexual orientation is one part of life not the whole thing.

Where it applies

  • discussions on identity politics
  • personal growth talks
  • community debates

Putting it to work

  • focusing on personal goals
  • defining own identity
  • finding common ground

Questions to consider

  • How much does identity define you?
  • What matters most in your life?

Another view

Some argue identity is central to lived experience rather than irrelevant.

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