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About this quote

What does it mean?
We need to acknowledge and remember the things we have destroyed.
In plain terms
Learn what you have lost.
What can you take from it?
Acknowledge loss before rebuilding.

Where it applies

  • post-conflict
  • environmental change
  • personal regret

Putting it to work

  • document loss
  • honor history
  • acknowledge mistakes

Questions to consider

  • What have you destroyed that you have not named?
  • How does naming loss help healing?

Another view

Some things destroyed cannot be named or recovered.

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