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What does it mean?
California makes death feel impersonal and commercial.
In plain terms
Death in California feels like a business transaction.
What can you take from it?
Modern life can make death feel cold.

Where it applies

  • funeral planning
  • urban life
  • nostalgia

Putting it to work

  • honor the dead
  • reflect on mortality
  • support grieving

Questions to consider

  • How is death handled where you live?
  • Does place shape grief?

Another view

Not everyone in California feels this way.

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