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A key difference between a dialogue and an ordinary discussion is that, within the latter people usually hold relatively fixed positions and argue in favor of their views as they try to convince others to change. At best this may produce agreement or compromise, but it does not give rise to anything creative.

David Bohm#28

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Ordinary discussions often involve defending fixed positions to convince others, limiting creativity. Dialogue allows for deeper exploration beyond compromise.
In plain terms
Talking to win stops new ideas; talking to understand creates them.
What can you take from it?
Avoid defending positions to enable creative outcomes.

Where it applies

  • team meetings
  • conflict resolution
  • brainstorming sessions

Putting it to work

  • facilitate open forums
  • suspend judgment
  • focus on shared meaning

Questions to consider

  • How often do I defend my view instead of exploring it?
  • What creates creativity in our group discussions?

Another view

Some situations require quick decisions rather than open dialogue.

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