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What does it mean?
The author compares the word shit to tofu, implying it is a mild substitute for stronger profanity.
In plain terms
Sedaris says the word shit is like tofu because it is a milder option for cursing.
What can you take from it?
Sometimes we use milder words to express frustration without being too harsh.

Where it applies

  • casual conversation
  • managing anger
  • vocabulary choices

Putting it to work

  • choosing appropriate language
  • expressing frustration
  • understanding slang

Questions to consider

  • Why do we soften our language?
  • What words do you use to stay polite?

Another view

The comparison relies on the idea that people find shit less offensive than other words.

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