Change isn't easy, Micky. Changing the way you live means changing the way you think. Changing the way you think means changing what you believe about life. That's hard, sweetie. When we make our own misery, we sometimes cling to it even when we want so bad to change, because the misery is something we know. The misery is comfortable.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Changing habits is hard because people cling to familiar misery over unknown change.
- In plain terms
- Change is hard because we get used to our misery.
- What can you take from it?
- Break familiar patterns to grow.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What familiar pattern holds you back?
- What change feels too hard?
Another view
Not all comfort zones are harmful to leave.
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