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In a crunch a man's reputation never counts for as much as it ought to. Most people are good-hearted and willing to give a man the benefit of the doubt, but the poisonous few are eager to see others brought down, ruined. : Envy, Bob. Envy eats them alive. If you had money, they'd envy you that. But since you don't, they envy you for having such a good, bright, loving daughter. They envy you for just being a happy man. They envy you for not envying them. One of the greatest sorrows of human existence is that some people aren't happy merely to be alive but find their happiness only in the misery of others.

Dean R. Koontz#9

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Some people find happiness in others' misery due to envy, despite most being good-hearted.
In plain terms
Envy makes some people unhappy and wish others ruin.
What can you take from it?
Recognize envy's power but don't let it rule.

Where it applies

  • dealing with critics
  • feeling misunderstood
  • social conflict

Putting it to work

  • ignore envious opinions
  • focus on own happiness

Questions to consider

  • What drives envy in others?
  • How do you protect your peace?

Another view

Assuming envy drives all criticism can be oversimplified.

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