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What does it mean?
People readily accept flattering lies but resist painful truths.
In plain terms
We believe lies that make us feel good but avoid truths that hurt.
What can you take from it?
Truth hurts so we avoid it.

Where it applies

  • receiving criticism
  • political discourse
  • self reflection

Putting it to work

  • seek honest feedback
  • question flattering claims

Questions to consider

  • What truths do you avoid?
  • How do you handle criticism?

Another view

Some truths are unnecessarily harsh.

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