Gratitude is a burden, and every burden is made to be shaken off.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Gratitude is burdensome and people naturally try to get rid of such burdens.
- In plain terms
- People feel burdened by gratitude and try to escape it.
- What can you take from it?
- Expect resistance when people feel indebted.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why is gratitude burdensome?
- How should we accept help?
Another view
Many people genuinely feel grateful.
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