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What does it mean?
We judge others for traits we dislike in ourselves.
In plain terms
Judgment reflects what we can't stand in others.
What can you take from it?
Reflect on why you judge.

Where it applies

  • conflict
  • criticism
  • relationships

Putting it to work

  • examine bias
  • accept flaws

Questions to consider

  • What do you judge most?
  • Why is that trait hard to tolerate?

Another view

Some judgments are reasonable.

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