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What does it mean?
Awareness of one's own flaws makes people quicker to judge and see faults in others.
In plain terms
When we feel bad about ourselves, we look for faults in other people.
What can you take from it?
Self-contempt often projects onto others as criticism.

Where it applies

  • conflict
  • social judgment
  • personal insecurity

Putting it to work

  • reflect on self-criticism
  • practice empathy
  • acknowledge flaws

Questions to consider

  • What flaws do you see in others?
  • How do you treat your own?

Another view

Sometimes criticism of others is warranted regardless of self-view.

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