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What does it mean?
One should not judge others until experiencing their circumstances.
In plain terms
Don’t judge people before walking in their shoes.
What can you take from it?
Empathy requires experiencing another’s situation first.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • practicing empathy
  • suspending judgment

Questions to consider

  • How can we better understand others without full experience?
  • When is judgment unavoidable?

Another view

It can be impossible to fully know another’s experience.

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