Though it is folly to suppose that happiness is a matter of volition, and that we can make ourselves content and cheerful whenever we choose - a theory that many poor hypochondriacs are taunted with till they are nigh driven mad - yet, on the other hand, no sane mind is ever left without the power of self-discipline and self-control in a measure, which measure increases in proportion as it is exercised. ~ Ch. 10
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Mulock suggests that while happiness isn’t purely a matter of will, self‑discipline can be cultivated and grows stronger with use.
- In plain terms
- Happiness isn’t just willpower, but self‑discipline can be built and strengthens with practice.
- What can you take from it?
- Practicing self‑control can improve well‑being over time.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How does self‑discipline interact with circumstances beyond our control?
- What habits most effectively boost happiness?
Another view
The claim may underestimate external factors affecting happiness.
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