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Mine to the core of the heart, my beauty! Mine, all mine, and for love, not duty: Love given willingly, full and free, Love for love's sake - as mine to thee. Duty's a slave that keeps the keys, But Love, the master, goes in and out Of his goodly chambers with song and shout, Just as he please - just as he please.

Dinah Maria Mulock#48

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Love belongs freely by choice not duty and it is the master not a slave.
In plain terms
Love must be given freely not out of obligation.
What can you take from it?
Love freely not out of duty.

Where it applies

  • romantic relationships
  • family bonds
  • personal values

Putting it to work

  • give love willingly
  • avoid obligatory affection

Questions to consider

  • Is love ever a duty?
  • How do you express free love?

Another view

It may overlook contexts where duty sustains relationships.

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