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What does it mean?
We never truly forget past pains; we just learn to handle them without pain over time.
In plain terms
We don't forget painful memories, but we learn to live with them.
What can you take from it?
Accept that memories remain even as they lose their sting.

Where it applies

  • grief processing
  • personal growth
  • reflection

Putting it to work

  • process past pain
  • allow time to heal
  • accept memories

Questions to consider

  • Can you ever truly forget pain?
  • How do you handle memories?

Another view

Some memories can be truly forgotten over time.

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