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What does it mean?
Pain is immediate, but understanding truth takes a long time.
In plain terms
Pain hits fast, but truth takes time.
What can you take from it?
Be patient with yourself when accepting difficult truths.

Where it applies

  • grief
  • realization
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • patience
  • reflection
  • emotional processing

Questions to consider

  • What truth did you accept slowly?
  • When did pain arrive first?

Another view

It ignores that sometimes pain prevents truth from ever arriving.

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