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What does it mean?
True closure or blindness to reality only comes from within, through grief and faith.
In plain terms
You can only stop seeing the truth if you cry and stop trusting.
What can you take from it?
Facing pain and trusting others keeps you open to the world.

Where it applies

  • recovering from loss
  • facing hard truths
  • building relationships

Putting it to work

  • allow yourself to grieve
  • practice vulnerability

Questions to consider

  • When did you last choose to trust someone?
  • How do you handle seeing painful truths?

Another view

It oversimplifies mental health by suggesting trust alone solves emotional pain.

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