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What does it mean?
No one should resent a woman for having experienced deep love, even if it was short-lived.
In plain terms
Do not envy or judge someone for a brief true love.
What can you take from it?
Respect that someone once loved and was loved fully.

Where it applies

  • discussing past relationships
  • feeling jealous of others
  • comforting a friend

Putting it to work

  • validate past relationships
  • avoid judgment

Questions to consider

  • Is a moment of true love worth a lifetime of pain?
  • How do you feel when others love more than you?

Another view

It ignores that short love can also lead to deep heartbreak and trauma.

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